How can I travel safely with my cat?

I'm Driving 14 hours for 2 days strait to Maine from Tennessee. How can I get my cat there safely, comfortable and and still be clean without him making messes in his crate but going to the bathroom when we get the chance at rest areas?

My Dad made fun of me for getting my period. What should I do?

I had my first period today and then I went to tell my dad and he looked me straight in the eyes and said " Get that pusssy shittt out of here you fukcing skank" Later on I heard him tell one of his friends that I am "damaged goods and a slutt just like my mom" I cant believe he could be so rude. I am about to cry as I read this. What should I do?

My friend asked me about "the pill."?

You know how birth control pills have 3 weeks of pills then 5 sugar pills? Well, my friend wanted to know, if she skipped the sugar pill and her "." and went strait to the next month of pills, could she get pregnant?

A genetics question on curly hair?

I was wondering, mostly hypothetically, but also because it interests me: My father has curly hair, my mother has straight hair (although of a very different quality than mine). I have mostly straight hair (just a bit wavy if it dries naturally), as does my current partner. If we were to have kids, would they still have a chance of curls, or would it definitely be straight hair?

What to wear when hanging out with friends, but there's a possibility I may see my crush?

Graphic tee with a cute picture or message, skinny jeans(any jeans), or shorts you like with converse? Or even flats...it gives off a laid back, down to be casual vibe :) hope it helps

How to not let a rude 14 year old girl bother me?

So i am 19 years old and have a 4 month old baby and am living with my husbands family while hes at air force basic training. and his 14 year old little sister is a rude, spoiled little brat who i have never said or done anything bad to. sometimes ill even do the dishes and put them away for her which is her chore. and she doesnt even appreciate it when i do. and earlier today i saw a notebook sitting on the kitchen table and i opened it and on the first page i realized it was hers cause she wrote about how much she hates her life and thinks everyone hates her and she said something about me that said my brother knocked up a scungy ho bag skank, she is a *****. and after i read that i cried for like an hour i couldnt believe someone could be so mean when ive done nothing to deserve it. so my question is how can i let this and all the other mean things she says and does not bother me? because i still have a few months left here and i dont want to be angry the whole time having to sit at the dinner table across from a very mean person

How Do Girls Feel About Shy Guys..................?

i am a very shy guy. i wonder if girls , laugh at me , make fun or don't say anything. im very tall and handsome and intellectual, but naturally shy, so don't make a girlfriend. just little contact with girls? am i looked as a "child"? im 23 male... and shyness is not going. thats why im single. ? :|

Is this wrong to think?

I love my boyfriend. He's great, and I mean, sometimes we disagree and sometimes he treats me like a child but everybody has their ups and downs. But he treats me nice and calls me and likes to do things and go places with me, and we have fun. We've even survived a one year long-distance relationship, and we've been going out for two years. But he is my first boyfriend. And lately I have been thinking, and I don't know if I want to be stuck with one guy forever. I want to try out other guys first, especially because I am starting college in the fall. I feel like a skank for saying and thinking this, because my boyfriend is really great. I don't know what to do. Please help?

I'm turning into a slut for wearing a crop top?

So the other day i wore a crop top, and now my friend is telling me that i'm a slut? I wore it with a pair of black leggings and you they were up so that you couldn't see my stomach unless i was stretching or something. I don't see how that is slutty at all especially since it's summer and i'm gonna wanna wear looser clothing and things like crop tops for the warmer weather. Things like this have happened before, i wear a pairs of shorts and i'm a skank. But I can walk to the beach with shorts and a bikini top and nobody will say a thing, it's all fine. Do you think it is slutty?

What should i tell my friend?

you too need to find something to do and just formally tell her to get off the F****** phone and chill crack a beer or go out n do some shtupidness

Do you ever hope.....?

Yes! For me its my nose and my forehead, although they are not huge, I am still not comfortable with them..but I guess I have to learn to settle with what I have haha!

How does sodium nitrate make soil alkaline?

Our lecturer told us that when Sodium Nitrate is added as a strait fertilizer the soil becomes alkaline with time. How does this happen? She didn't give any explanation and asked us to find out. So far I had no luck with it. The possible answer I've found is that Nitrate turns to nitrite , then nitrite reacts with water to give HNO2 and H+. But I'm not sure whether thats entirely right. Help!

Why do I feel like I need to be with a guy that's older then me by several or more years?

Okay first off you are stereotyping. And not all guys 17-24 are like that. Obviously you haven't been around. You have been searching in the wrong places.

First electric guitar advice?

Considering buying my first electric guitar. Been playing a Stagg electro acoustic for 3 years now and now I'm looking for something that will give a fully electric sound. My influences in playing are quite varied. I'm into a bit of classic rock, metal and my favourite band would probably be Dire Straits. Looking for something in the price bracket of �100-200. Advice would be appreciated! Thanks guys xD

My friend is mad at me for stupid reasons?

my friend and i have been on the rocks lately, and she keeps blaming me. She is at a camp of some sort and wew were talking on the phone and i heard another girl in the room, i said "hey, i heard someone, hehe, can i talk to them?" but i was joking, but she put me on anyways, i didn't know what to say so i was like, um, hi," she said hi, then, agian joking, i say "i love you will you marry me, hhahahaha" she was like "bye" and really flat about it too. then i hear screaming from the phone. my friend was like "i knew you were gonna say that, i hate that about you (ouch) she asked me if you were a lesbian! geez, what wrong with you!" me: "um, i'm you know i'm strait" her: well you didn't have to say that!" more talking we hang up, i thought we were all good, and forgiven, because she dropped the subject. Then on Facebook she said "i'm sooo mad at you for what you said to my friend" me:" um, sorry if it helps, but can your friend not take a joke?" ( her friend had told everybody that she had a lesbian friend, and anyways if i was a lesbian, which i'm not, what's wrong with being one?) her:"what type of a joke was that!?" i'm really tired of this type of thing from her, do you think i should forget this friendship or if you think i should try to mend it, how?

Help! I don't know which one to pick :(?

red would look nice, but A LOT of ppl have that. blue would look cool too. pick red if you like it and if you want a bit more of a natural color. pick blue if you like it and if you want to stand out. im not sure about the styling tips though, sorry.. HOPE THIS HELPED!

Am I crazy or what? (advice anyone)?

I've had this problem since senior year. I hired two boys to model for me, for my paintings one time back in 2007. when I asked them they were very kind and said yes. I asked them to meet me in front of the school at lunch time. I was sort of geeky and over wheight back then and I never thought they would come. but when I showed up there they were wating for me so then I started drawing them. when I was done they went on there way. both of the guys were so sweet and nice. at that time I was'int intrested in boys. Then we all graduated from school and I rememberd the painting I made of the two guys and then I began taking the sketches that I drew of them and I made saperate paintings. belive it or not I I began to fall for one of the paintings of one of the guys. the more I painted him the more it grew on me. to this day I have feelings for the guy. it's been 4 years later and of course I've lost wheight and I still like him. I dream about him more than any other person. but foutunatly he's got a girlfriend, I know this because I'm his friend on facebook. his girlfriend is beautiful and she has a nice smile. usualy girls hate the girlfriends of the one they like. but I'm not that way infact I'm happy for her because she has a wonderful boyfriend and it's not her fault it just happend for her. she must be very special to have a kind person like him. so am I crazy to like someone for 4 years strait or just crazy for falling for a guy in my paintings. who knows..... I just wish he would know how I felt.... (advice anyone)

Only answer this question if you hate skanky women with indecent stuff showing!?

hi i am sick of women displaying there skanky boobs, clevege lines! it upset me to see this i wonder if anyone else feels the same and how it effects your life? please tell me. i dont even want to walk out my door because its like women have gotten so skanky they might as well be naked,its just like boobs are shoved in my face and i have no escape everywhere i go they are there!i cant even watch a tv program because there is always some skank bending over and the camera is always zoomed in on there skanky bits. it also makes me feel insecure about my own body. what sort of example does this set for children too? what about the old days where everyone was covered wearing decent stuff that covered even cleveage line. i even dont like bikini its just like underwear if women want to go swimming they should wear a full bodysuit leartard that keeps them covered.if anyone else believes there should be a ban on the indecent stuff women are wearing please let me know as i am trying to start a petition against skanky women please also can you tell me your reasons too thank you from shellz

Can I get my lips back to the color?

I was born and had naturally Red lips and it was kinda a trademark... well i put concealer on after being embarrassed that everyone else at middle school had pink, and my lips got a bit lighter. can/how i get my lips back to that color?

Guys: Should the freind (girl) tell the guy friend she likes him?

ok i know i''m a straight girl but hear me out. ii was in a very similar situation recently except i didn't know if the guy liked me.and i asked him out. it was cute actually, but he said "no for the moment" (i'm hanging on to the "for the moment' part for all it's worth X) ) and i was really afraid it was going to make things awkward. but after, we listened to his iPod and we were singing and dancing like always. it was only kinda awkward while listening to "paparazzi" by lady gaga. but besides that, nothing changed. and on the last day of school, i kissed him on the cheek. TWICE and he said he actually felt better because he already started missing people. and i still call and we talk on the phone for hours and it's the best part of my day (and i think his too) point is, GO FOR IT!!! it's only awkward if you make it and if it is, he isn't worth it anyway. you should feel...at home when you talk to the guy you like no matter what. maybe a couple butterflies, but mostly at home. so GO FOR IT!!! you'll regret it if you don't and he might just say yes =)

Whats the best/fastest way to get my black hair to brown?

the best thing you can do is strip your hair. you can find the striping stuff at Sally's. it will put it back to your normal color. than all you have to do is dye it brown or what color you want. :) hope i helped you.

How shall i do my hair with a one shoulder dress? really need help?

I think a messy bun would look nice! Just do a bun but loosely tie it and do not brush the hair into the shape :)

Blonde highlights in natural strawberry-blonde hair?

I'm thinking about getting some blonde highlights in my hair..I have naturally wavy strawberry-blonde hair and I feel if I get some blonde highlights it'll really make my blonde stand out. However, my boyfriend is totally against this idea saying he loves my hair how it is and that it's perfect..I'm not sure what to do. Any suggestions? :)

What is name of Dire Straits song with Shepherd?

It was on my XM and showed the name of the song was called Shepherd by Dire Straits but can not find the song with this name anywhere--is it under another song? It's very inspirational...anyone?

Do i need to practice shooting from sides?

ok so ive been taking basketball really serious latly. trying to improve my game as much as possible playing atleast an hour a day just a few days back i played 4.5hours strait tho. but ive been playing in my driveway cause there is no indoor gyms around and non eof the parks have proper lines. but the problem is that width wise my drive way isnt big enough. if i can sink 3 point shots from infront of the net but cant practice shooting from the sides is that gona show much in my game (mainly just play shooting gaurd)

What's a good face cream to apply before makeup?

When i put make up on, after a while my face gets greasy and oily. Is there some kind of face cream i can use to avoid this ? My skin is naturally oily, but when i put make up on it looks fresh for a while but then it gets oily again after a few hours. Can you help me ? This happens to me with all kinds of makeup so it's not the makeup, and i use the oil free make up...please help! :)

Cell phone beeping? ?

So ive tried to call this girl once or twice and the first time it went strait to voicemail (I know what that means). The second time there was a continuous beeping sound instead of ringing. I need help please!

Am I being a bad parent in this situation?

im not trying to say that you are teaching her wrong, its just that if you let her smoke tea, its like getting her ready for an exam, teaching her things that are like smoking weed so she actually knows how to get a joint ready for smoking

What would you do if...?

The girl or guy you really like, and who seemed to be crazy about you too, but suddenly turned distant for virtually no reason, offered to hook up with you? (And by hook up I mean strictly making out) You have never even been kissed before, and you're sick of waiting for that fairy tale that seems unlikely to happen, and the frustration is killing you. You just want to get out pent up emotions. Would you go for it, knowing that you'll be happy, but just be more hurt in the end, or stay strong and resist, and wait for that right person for things to happen naturally with?

Coworker in Limbo. And the Female Libido. What to do, what to do?

So, I am a bartender. I work with one specific bartender who is overwhelmingly attractive. We get along phenomenally. Our chemistry is palpable, and other people tease us about it all the time. But nothing ever happened between us. Until the other night. Now keep in mind, this kid is a bartender in a night club. Women throw themselves at him fairly often. I think I am a pretty good looking woman, but not comparable to some that he has been with (as far as I imagine). We were hanging out after work, and the tension just got too high, and I kissed him. We made out for a little while, and he stopped me. He said that he was overthinking things, about the fact that we work together and whatnot. He admitted that he is very attracted to me and that he had wanted this to happen. But he said his brain was getting the better of him and it was giving him performance anxiety. He said something along the lines of "if you were just some skank from the bar, this wouldnt be an issue. But its hard for me, because we have been friends and we do get along so well." He kept saying that he was very attracted to me, but soon after he went home. Now I have to go to work and face him. I don't know what is going on or where we stand. He knows that I am not looking for a relationship, but that doesn't mean I want to totally ignore the outrageous chemistry between us every time I see him. What the heck should I do?

Why would she be like this? Does this make sense to anybody else?

She sounds happy to be your friend but not your girl friend. I'm thinking she does not want to upset you. Enjoy the friendship the right girl will come along.

Why does my boyfriend come back if he doesnt want to spend time with me?

Yes they do string along girls for sex. Its really sad but their heart is not in it like women. Don't be like me. I was so much in love with this man, he told me he love me for years and married somebody else. Really in truly--it was all about the sex. Now I'm a miserable old lady. But like goes on.

How to make a bike seat hurt less?

In my cycling experience buying top of the line (expensive) seat/saddle will almost always solve's the problem. But i would not recommend that to you because you're just 12 and a beginner. For the mean time just adjust your seat to find the right height until the feeling of pain subsides. Perhaps the feeling of pain won't disappear immediately, you'll just have to keep adjusting the height during every long ride until you find that comfortable and painless feeling.

WHY WON'T PEOPLE LET ME BE ME?

The guy is a co-worker so he probably said that because it is better for business when people talk and are more outgoing. Just be you.

Scared of dad...what should I do?

Sometimes you just need to ditch your parents its hard and no body wants to do it, but life is never easy. you need to make the difficult choices.

Should I break up with my partner(sending photo's of his privates)?

Frustrating to say the least, you do need to talk to him and let him know how upsetting this is, and why the behaviour is not acceptable, I think he already knows it is not acceptable, ask him about the rule of you do things only that you would do in front of each other. There would have to be a serious turn around or counselling or something to fix it.

I just walked into a restaurant and saw...?

my boyfriend sitting and having dinner with another girl. I'm thinking of walking up to the table and cussing him out. I need answers fast, so I can react as soon as possible. I can't believe he'd do something like this. I don't know if I'm furious or heart broken. She looks like such a skank. He told me he was at a family dinner.

Little waist big hips D:?

okay, so i was talking to my friend and she said i had wide hips, but she said it was a good thing? so i hav a waist siz of 24 inch. and a hip size of 36 inch. is it good or bad to have a body shape like that? bc i cant trim down cuz my hip bone stick out so theres no fat (its naturally that way)

When people say darken hair naturally what does that mean?

I've used coffee on my hair before, it does not make it black! It gives it a richer, deeper brown tone to it. Her hair wont be black, dont worry.

I need to know whats wrong with me and what should i do?

ok so i just got into some deep **** and ive done alot of thinking and there is somthing wrong me i know. me and my friend stole his moms car multiple times and we got caught becasue some skank ratted us out! im about to kill her, all i can thhink of doing is going on a killing spree and ending everything right now. i also have a hard time paying attention and sleeping. i have big mood swings but there not like bipolar intense mood swings. i usually dont feel emotions or feel bad but i do occasionally. i use to cut myself a little bit and i love being burned! whats wrong and how can i help btw im 14 and a boy

How do enlarge my penis?

Build up your muscle. Sit on the edge of a chair and out a wet washcloth over your penis and then raise your penis up and down with muscles. Works for real!

Libertarians out there are you right leaning?

Yes I most definitely am. The only issues that i agree with the left on are 1) gay marriage because who are we to decide who has the right to pursue happiness. 2) legalize the buds, because they help me stay happy in this cynical world.

How to attract black women?

im guessing the club. um wear chains and dress fresh. buy a fitted and diamond earrings. dress cool.

I cant bare to look at myself.?

you need to have something done about this. you cant do it on your own, no matter how embarrassing it is, you need an adults help. you should find a counsolur at your school. The only reason that she is doing all this mean stuff is to impress her friends and to make herself feel better. She is insecure inside. The only way to make her feel better is to make others feel worse. She wants approval. shes a ***** haha

Lately I have been loosing alot more hair then usual?

Melissa, has anything happened lately that has caused you to stress, other than the hair loss? e.g exams. That could be the cause. Has your diet changed lately, you may be lacking in vitamins or minerals or iron deficient. I have gone through the same thing and it was due to stress and changes in diet. You should go see you GP, I know losing hair is worrying.

President Obama 700 Billion bail money?

It was closer to $800 Billion. 1/3rd of it went to the largest tax cut for us ever. Most of the rest went to the states who saved it instead of putting it into those projects you mentioned.

Does my phone work for my new plan?

Ok so my friend gave me this verizon phone about 6 months ago and I havnt touched it since. But now im getting Strait Talk with verizon and I want to know if this phone will work with it or what. And if it does how would it work, would I just bring it when I activate my unlimitted card or what? Thanks guys :D

Does he still have feelings? should i go for it?

Dont talk to him! make him regret what he did.. he obviously does like you but if u want him to come back then you must not talk to him no matter what and if u see him in the hall you cant look at him.. he will eventually realize what happened..

SC's are you naturally an argumentative person or do you just not take any guff?

I like to think I am a genial man, but last fortnight, I lost it I am ashamed to say ,and swore at a middle aged (Lady?}Who hurt my disabled wife. I have never done this sort of thing in my life, but no one must hurt my lass...

I am the only person that who thinks that rihanna's overrated?

She's defiantly overrated. Someone said her songs express personal experiences. What I want to know is what personal crap you can express with an umbrella, cars, and dancing around in slinky outfits. Rhianna's voice isn't that great, anyway. And I hate how she's trying to act like rocker chick when she's all bubblegum pop. She always has those finger-less gloves on and tries to look good. But she doesn't. When her first song came out, it was okay. I thought she was going to be a great role model for people or whatever. But now she turned into a skank. Have you seen her videos? Dancing around half-naked is not hot. Her music isn't even that catchy. Seriously, why do people like her so much?

Which one should I pick!? Help please :(?

I have very curly dark brown hair that is a bit longer than my armpit length, and reaches the bottom of my boob when strait. I am tired of having boring one tone hair, so I want to change it up. I've had golden highlights before and they were awful. I want to add either blue or red in my hair, but I don't know what color to pick. Also I don't know how to put it. A streak? The tips? The bottom and back? Highlights? I need help, what color and style would look best for my hair? Also I am 15 years old and a girl. Thank You <3

I Feel so terrible... What do you think about this?

Well u can't stress on the past, but maybe talk to him. Let him down easier than just a flat out "no" cuz those 2 letters can cut pretty deep. But, if you don't see yourself ever liking him like that then you hav to get him to stop cuz if he is obsessed with you, this isn't gonna stop. You could try letting him no that he is overwhelming you and its making him uncomfortable, if you still wanna be friends with him then let him no that but it would be better if you didn't talk about relationships with him (like if you find a guy you like) unless he has moved on and is dating someone else. And don't act too close to him or else he'll misunderstand and think u r(or could be) interested in him. Try and make some space between the two of you wenever possible and don't be too nice. Good Luck(^-^).

What should i do about him?

i had a thing with this guy dating way back and we had a thing for several months ...anyways we got in a fight over his cousin telling me he loved me ....it has been 8 months and now we started talking again i really like him he makes me feel special anyways i have kept it a secret from my friends for 2 weeks that i have a thing with him again i told one of them today and they said what he has a gf aparently they have been dating for a month ....i dont care to be his gf but i hate the girl hes with shes a skank ...anyways what would u do ??? play dumb pretend u dont know he has a gf or tell him you dont mind u just want him to be honest and u still want to have a friends with benifits thing with him

If I can't lift much weight the first few times deadlifting, does it mean I am not naturally very strong?

the key to dead lifting is form/technique. i literally went from dl'ing 275lbs for one to 385lbs for 1 in a months times just from improving my form

Mark Knopfler to play with The Straits at Newcastle City Hall?

Does anyone know if Mark Knopfler will be making an appearance when The Straits perform at Newcastle City Hall this October? Do you know who is in the line up?

Do breast enhancement pills work?

What can make breast grow naturally? I'm 5'2, 117 lbs, and my breast size is 34B. I would like them to be a little bigger since I always use push ups and I don't want too be too deceiving, hah.

Keep giving girl a UTI?

My sister had this problem... you two probably have a PH balance problem. It happens sometimes. Try using condoms WITHOUT spermicide or lubrication. Your PH is different than hers and it is causing a problem in her vagina. Also try washing your penis before having sex, DIRECTLY before having sex. Also tell her not to douche if she does because this washes out healthy bacteria as well as bad and thus opens her up for infections. Hope that helps :D

Lump back of head left side lining with bottom ear about 2 inches away?

hello, i was wondering if anyone could tell me what this bump is on the left side on the back of my head lining with the bottom of my ear just 2 inches over. it is on one of the two bones you can naturally feel that's on both side. It's a hard lump about the size of a nickel maybe bigger, it doesn't hurt or anything. just wondering if anyone can tell me some answers and bring some peace to my mind thanks.

Guys! Quick question!?

Ok so if u were to go up to a girl amd hug her but when u opened ur arms she just looked strait in ur eyes and said no, what would you do?? Would u give up even if u have a crush on her? Cuz i kinda did that and idk what he is thinking right now......will he ever try to hug me again? I kinda like him :/

Could she be peggo? NEED ANSWER SOON! (like 10 minutes soon.)?

Okay, my girlfriends last period was june6th or something near there. A period tracking app on her phone said she was due june 22nd for another period which she thought was weird. Naturally, she did not start. We had sex on the 17th. condom and pull out. The whole app thing has my head all twisted and im kinda nervous. What do you think?

Tips on going gray gradually?

I have been coloring my hair for 10 years. I use Perfect 10 Light Brown and love it, but I am 47 and feel it is almost time to start letting it go naturally gray. I want the process to be gradual so the white roots situation is not shocking and painful to look at. Should I use the next lighter shade of Perfect 10 or should I switch to a semi-permanent dye instead? Should I get my hair professionally lightened? I have very long hair and want to keep it long. Any tips and suggestions would be very appreciated.

Can you eat a piece of salmon when it's just a little "pink" (red) in the middle?

I know salmon is naturally pink but I mean when it's just slightly not fully cooked in the middle. Like the equivalent of a medium-cooked piece of steak, except for salmon.

Do I need to stop eating?

NO!! you should never stop eating. you sound as though you have your eating habits pretty under control. just try to stick to fruits and veggies or whole grains when you snack. they are good for you and keep you full longer so you may not need to eat as much later. just be careful not to settle into binges. eat when you need to, but eat things that are good for your body. exercise regularly, but don't overdo it. i'm sure you look great!

How should guys dress in highschool?

Hey I'm a white 16 year old. I have a shaved head and wear big plain t-shirts. I also wear skinny/strait jeans. And skate shoes. I'm thinking about getting gages to. Not big ones though. Just to 4's. Do you think I have a good style? Also, I'm 5"9 and weigh 165lbs. I'm kinda chubby but I have broad shoulders.

Why do I never get asked out by guys?

I get told by all my friends that I'm naturally pretty. I'm athletic and tan. I am friends with almost everyone in school, but I wouldn't consider myself to be popular. I'm pretty nice but not too nice. I'm kind of girly but not to the point where it gets annoying, and I have a pretty equal amount of guy and girl friends. I'm a bit immature, but I'm not fake (meaning I act like myself), which is one thing I can say I'm proud of. I always seem to be liked by all the guys that I don't like, and that kind of bothers me. I'm going into the 8th grade (13) and I've never had a boyfriend. Can someone help me? ):

Can the hairdo 25" clip-in layered strait hair extensions be heat styled?

well what quality is the hair? if you get remy grade AAA hair (the best in my opinion) and you can straighten it and curl it or whatever you want. I got some of thoes at a href="http://www.hairextensionstore.biz" rel="nofollow"http://www.hairextensionstore.biz/a and they look really good. they have 24" and 26" i have the 24" and its the perfect length. I curl mine all the time and it looks great...

What are good ways to help elderly relatives to avoid being "sweet talked" into wasting their money on sales?

Sit down and have a long conversation with the elderly relatives. Suggest another family member be in charge of their finances. This way, no one can take advantage of them because they will NOT have any access to their money.

How did the Development of the bering strait theory affect the views of modern native americans on the arrival?

HOW DID THE DEVOLOPMENT OF THE BERING STRAIT THEORY AFFECT THE VIEWS OF MODERN NATIVE AMERICANS ON THE ARRIVEL OF THE FIRST AMERICANS

HELP!!! HELP NOW!!!!?

Hi there! I have something I really need to decided... My boyfriend & I have been together for 4 months. We have so much in common its unreal! Both want futures together, both grew up in similar situations, and pretty much get each other. I'm so in love with him! He even asked if I'd like to marry him one day. He's great...... but too controlling. Tries to keep me away from my friends because their "bad influences," Tells me not to where shorts because their "skank" shorts, I can't talk to guys anymore because he gets jealous fast & then threatens to dump me. He's a great boyfriend other then the controlling part. My friends tell me to dump him but i lost my virginity to him & its so hard. Help me please!!! I need advice! I don't know what to do.

I think I have ADD or I may just be stupid?

Hahaha dude you sound just like me kind of I got a lot of the same problems, wow that strange. Im perfectly normal but i think I got dyslexia. I have to also have things repeated to me quit a few time and it take me a wile to comprehend things, but when I do get it i do a great job. Check into it You might have it.

How do I meet Riley in Iron Island - Pokemon Pearl?

Your lucky you came by because I'm a pokemon expert. First, GET RID OF 1 POKEMON!!!! Then, You take the stairs to the right. Battle the little scout girl and go to the elevator. (Kind of like the one you used to get to Fantina) Take the stairway down to the left. There you will first meet Riley. Go past the karate master and the fighter girl, then the 2 aces and take the elevator Down. u will find a cave entrance. Take that entrance and that's how you get out of Iron island..... Well, I did beat the game! That's what happens afterward. But I specifically remember that u and Riley have 2 face 2 members of team Galactic. Then Riley will give you the egg.

What to do when your wife is insane?

The signs were there, and you ignored them. You love(d) her, and were probably hoping certain things weren't true or would change. You can't change the past, you can only decide what to do with your future. We all make mistakes, get "blinded" by love, it happens. Time to move on. I'm glad to hear you are in the process of doing so and wish you the best of luck.

What does the term"skank muffin" mean?

i have a friend whos daughter calls her a skank muffin. i know what it meant when i was young but what does it mean today? what ever i dont think its respectful.

I can't seem to get a girlfriend?

I can't really get a girlfriend and I try so hard to. None of my friends have girlfriends but when they do, they are very unattractive and dirty or pretty slutty and go around with my other friends. I have been in three relationships in my life. First girl was in 7th grade and lasted 2 weeks. Second girl was in the 9th grade and once again 2 weeks. The third was 11th grade and lasted 6 months. The first girl turned out to be the skank that went around with my friends. The second girl turned out to be uninteresting after a week. The last girl was just a girlfriend but she would always dump me for no reason and I realized she was very immature. I finally just stopped with her. NOW THESE WERE RELATIONSHIPS, I HAVE NEVER BEEN ON A REAL DATE (hung out and had fun)... I just hung out with them at school or my house. No real dates.. Now I am losing my mind. Everytime I see a really good looking girl on Facebook, I try engaging a conversation with them. So many have not replied but some have. They just gave one word replies. The only girls that talk to me are the ones who are (hate to be mean and shallow but) fat. To be exact, I have messaged around 30 girls. 3/4's have not replied over a week and 1/4 replied with one word and just didn't care to know anything about me. I am not looking to go desperate, I never will. I know I am not ugly, I am a really good looking guy. I care a lot about my health and such. I make music and may get a record deal soon and I know I am smart. AND I KNOW I AM FUNNY , I always get told that.... I am confident...but right now...I am losing that confidence and I don't wanna lose my self esteem... I keep wondering if this is fate... Girls just shun me. I don't mean to sound dramatic but this is so weird. I dream everynight about having a girlfriend. It's not the same girl though. I don't know what I can try anymore. I have tried being the caring guy. I have wrote some neat things in my Facebook status before but only fat girls comment. All the good looking girls are just avoiding me. All I can do is ******* cry about it. I always wanted to be like the guys that chased the hot girls on a beach and just have fun. But I CANT! If I ever have a kid I would feel so miserable when I tell him my childhood. I never got to chase girls. I never went on a date with a girl. It's so damn sad to think about.

How do I clear my acne naturally?

I am hanging out with a bunch of my friends in a couple weeks and i need to clear my acne really fast... I tried a whole bunch of acne medications and they don't work:/ sooo.. i need natural solutions... pleasee help!!(;

My face is swelled up from ?

ok heres my pickle.... my throat hurts on thursday 2 days later i was deep into having strep .. anyway i started taking cefadroxil for 5 days worked beautifuly i stopped taking em early 2 days later my throat hurts again and is enflammed so i take cefadroxil for 3 days strait on the third day i wake up my face is swollen my neck has slight rash .... but im kinda thinking that since the day before i was working with hay all day which i was covered in and was going in my eyes is what did it cuz the night before i woke to see my face i was very itchy on the neck ..... its the first time me having real contact with hay ....

Rlly wanna end mi life but I just don't know(a little long)?

Im 16 and mi ex fianc� got me pregnant and I kept the baby n in feburary I got in a car accident and lost mi baby gurl in mi stomach, and then I started dating mi frend Bently and he's kind of a messed up guy, he does drugs like meth merijuana and what not, and is just not stable but I loved him but then he just went off on me callin me a whore, hoe, skank, and **** for no reason, n mi moms a drunk ***** who beat me n was and still is a horrible mother, so i ran away from az to NY to mi aunt and stayed there for a bit, and that's where I met up wit mi frend Peter and we started dating and things were great till he cheated on me wit an actual skank, and just at the end treated me like ****, so I went bac to az and mi mom kicked the living **** out of me and I just don't think the world wud care if died, any like reason y I shudnt?

WHY WOULD A WOMAN PREFER TO BE THE RICH GUYS SKANK THAN REGULAR BLUE COLLAR JOE'S QUEEN?

I guess they think that it's better to have money than happiness. And if they marry the guy and divorce them, they get half of it.

Lump on the back of my hand?!?

Ok so i have a small bump on the back of my hand. When my hand is strait, you can hardly see it. But when my hand is bent forwards, there is this huge bump! It doesnt hurt now, but a few weeks ago it hurt when ever i picked something heavy up, or moved my wrist. When i touch it, It feels like a hard round ball. If you would like any more details, please tell me to put it in additional details! Thanks!

I'm working on choosing to be strait. What is a good faith based conversion therapy service?

Lets not get into this whole "born gay" hokum. If I chose to be gay, I can choose to be strait! I just need some help from Jesus.

Is it funny or sad that the WWE tries so hard to be mainstream, but years ago is was easy for them to do...?

What are you talking about? 10-12 years ago Vince McMahon was in trouble with the media all the time. The media always gave Vince problems because they thought Attitude Era was pushing it too far.

Career in truck driving?

okay so im at a crossroads in my life. at first i wanted to get a degree in criminal justice and have a career in law enforcement...but now I want to drive a truck. It aint about money to me. I love the open road and thats what I want as a career. I want to work for a local company that hauls asphalt oil (asphalt runs in my blood lol) but the bad part is im only 19. Since you can rarely get a job at 19 driving a truck in tennessee, i couldnt work for them strait off because if im not mistaken you have to be 21 to get a hazmat license since asphalt oil is considered a hazardous material, and they drive out of state. so heres my question. how would i be able to get a head start in my career since it will be 2 years before I can actually drive for them? and how would i go about getting my hazmat license once im able to?

Is it possible to get stuck talking with a specific accent?

i sometimes get bored and annoy my dad by "talking like a russian" as he calls it when im just using a russian accent but i also do it to amuse my friends but i am doing it alot now without wanting to and it wont stop even if i want to talk normal is it possible for my body to get used to it and do it naturally like i normally would my normal voice and replace it with that accent truth is i dont care just wondering that would be cool though

My son hates my girlfriend, now what?

Are you serious!? NO you should not break up with your girlfriend! You should be *incredibly* thankful she is willing to stick by your side when some random kid (to her, anyhow) comes into the picture, interrupting what the two of you had made for eachother before your son came into your lives. Your son is a teenager - all teenagers have issues. This one happens to have a total disregard for women. Your job is to set a good example: show him how to honor, love, and protect a woman (YOUR WOMAN!) from this turmoil. Set clear boundaries. Don't allow your son to disrespectful. Always talk about her good points. Kids learn by example. If you break up with your girlfriend, you will be losing an opportunity to teach your son about respecting women, and thanking God you are so lucky your girlfriend is actually in your life. Don't take her for granted and throw her away. She deserves SO MUCH BETTER than that. And get some counseling for the three of you - this is too complicated of a situation for you all to try to handle it yourselves.

Broken wrist? what do you think?

if you can move your wrist you haven't broken it but probably severely sprained it. Alternate with ice and heat

Should I cut my hair?

Right now my hair is to the middle of my chest with shoulder length layers and side bangs. It's naturally straight and thin. I'm thinking about cutting it to my collarbone with long layers and keeping the side bangs..do you think I should do it?

I want straighter teeth but I'm to embarrassed?

He has never said anything about braces...but i just want Straiter teeth I really struggle with hating myself and depression almost....so i think improving my smile would be a big help to me....I just don't know how to ask....our family knows his family personally and i don't want him to be like...*thinking in his head* wow I can't believe she asked for braces....what a douche! Is there any way I can casually bring it up? I have tmj if that helps....and I also think fixing my overbite and correcting my midline would help....what should I do?!?!:'( thanks

Why does my boyfriend call me rude names?

well for one thing you are too young too have sex with a 16 year old boy and that is all he is using you for dump him and fast

I'm a Black girl & I'm tired of being single, should I settle and date guys I'm not into?

I'm 23 years old, and I've only kissed guys, never sex or nothing else. I feel awkward about this, but a lot of men like me. that's not my problems. My problem is that I like men who don't live around me and the men who do live around me aren't good. I live in an area that is heavily White Caucasian. Where I work is mostly White people, but its country. The White men look at me like I'm some Black skank, like they just want to undress me & I feel it so awkward, even when they're with their wives and they flirt and I feel weird about it. They don't want a real relationship with me I know. I rarely see White men dating Black women here, but sex happens. I know a girl who dated a White man for 7 months and they had sex and things were good and she found out through another friend that he was married with kids. I was so turned d off, but it is almost expected because that's what guys do. He thought she wouldn't know because she lives in the "Black" areas of town away from his family. The Black men in here areas aren't good to date even! They are mostly thugs and low lives. Many sell drugs and live in the projects, and I don't want to be a single mother. Its a very poverty stricken area where most Black people live in town and there's only few of us there. My dating options are so low here, most of the guys are not worth the time. I want to date a cute hispanic guy. One who speaks Spanish, and is tall, nice, handsome.. I see those types in movies and always saw myself with one, they are constantly on my mind.

I dont trust my boyfriend?

He's lying to me about smoking weed after I caught him already once and said I didn't care if he smoked it or not. Also there are txts on his phone from this skanky married girl who would flirt with him at work. We all work together. The texts aren't flirts but I know years back before she got married he did like her and was trying to pursue her. Then after him and I got together she would flirt with him a lot. Joking about naming her baby after him and moving in his house. He really hasn't acted wrong with her and the txts aren't flirtatious but I still feel like he should tell me that the skank at work has been texting him. What do I do? I'm feeling a terrible wave of anxiety when I think about it all.

How to be and act like a skank?

im 13 & theres a 'skank' themed oceana in a few days so i just want to know what clothes to buy, how to do my makeup & how to act. me & my friends have already bought a couple things but not enough:// thankss[:

Am I being sexually harassed?

aww i just wrote a lot and my computer deleted it so ill try my best to remember....well i think he is emotionally hurting you. If you feel that he really deserves to get in trouble, then tell his probation officer. If I were you I would call your ex bf and tell him that you will tell his probation officer about what he is doing or what he did, if he doesn't stop, and if he doesnt stop I would then call. You should make sure you know if he deserves to get into more trouble with the law than he aleady has.

What hairstyle should i have?

i have an oval face, i think a big forehead, long blonde hair, and naturally strait hair. {but i braid it at nite to get it wavy cuz i think it looks better} and i dont know if i should bangs, if so wat kind? could u please help?? thnkz <3

Natural Ways To Help Pre-Transition (M2F)?

I'm only 14 and I can't get on hormones yet so I was wondering if there was anyways to naturally help pre-transitioning from male to female. When I say this I don't mean some magical thing to help in some big way, I just mean small things like certain foods that decrease testosterone or foods that increase estrogen production? Also I hear that if you do excessive cardio workouts it will lower testosterone levels, what would be excessive? Thanks...

Is she really my true friend?

My best friend (or a person I though was my best friend) and I made plans about a month after the 4th of july last year (2010) we met each other on the 4th of july that year and thought it would be amazing to celebrate the fact were so close and it was because of our boyfriends we had at the time. We both got asked out with in the same two weeks. I got asked out on the 23ed on june and she got asked out on the 4th of july. we had our ups and downs with our boyfriends but me and her never ever had one fight. I was always there for her but she was never there for me. I always put her before my boyfriend but she didnt do so for me. I thought it was some teen age girl faze that i just didnt understand yet because she is two years older then me. She is 17 in 15. So I let her go through her faze. But then this kid cheated on her, talked **** and all this horrible stuff. I was there for her 100% of the way! Remind you I ditched my boyfriend for that whole month sue to her tears and sadness... And then they got back togeather. I knew it was going to happen. yet continued to let her live her life as she wants reminding her of how im always going to be ther for her. And again. A few months later dumped her. Now I know what it feels like to not fit in the world. My dad abused my, My step dad cheated on my mom and was a totall druggy and my mom is stressed and depressed. I know I loved my boyfriend. More then anything, But I knew to put my "Best friend" First cause Im aways there for her, She will one day return the favor. I have a hard time saying no. And I was in a situation where a guy wanted me to cheat on my boyfriend. And I couldnt, Just couldnt say no. And He took advantage of me. I told my boyfiend the next day and he left me. Not saying one word to me hr got up and left me. I tried to call, text and see him. And hes avoiding me. all i was thinking that day was "She is going to call and aske what happened" And later that night i got a call. SHE IS BITCHINgg AT ME! She hasent even heard my side of the story. She called my a slut. a skank and all this other stuff. Never thought I would be hearing this from her. But I told her the story and she under stood. One thing I love about her. Shes not a back stabbing *****. Or so i though... The fourth of july is coming up " Hey so are we still hanginfon the 4th of july?" I texted her today... she responded with no she has plans with her boyfriend she has made two weeks ago.... I tried to tell her we have had this planned out for about a year now... And she tol dme her boyfriend is more important then our friend ship.. then started telling me how its not her fault im a dirty whore who lost her boyfriend cause she cheated on him.. and im a gross slut and all this hurtfull stuff. Now I love my ex. More then enything and anyone. And it hit me. hurt so much. I snapped. I called her up bitching! I was shaking so hard all i could thing about was her face getting fuckedup by my fist. And she had teh guts to say she didnt want to talk to a slut like me.. Then had teh guts to say sorry and get mad at me for notaccepting it. And tried to tel me that shes my best friend -__- what do I do?

I feel like no guy thinks of me as "dating material"?

I have a reputation of being "innocent" (which i am. i never drink or party, i havent even had my first kiss yet lol.) My guy friends are always calling me "cute" but i assume they mean that in a little sister type of way. I have a lot of guy friends and they always play around with me, in a flirty friend type way. Even my crush seems to think im like a little girl. The guy im currently crushing on is known as a player and bad boy and hangs around all the bad girls. I'm the total opposite of a "bad girl" but he treats me differently. He's rude to most most girls but he seems very respectful towards me, but i feel like its cuz he views me as a little girl and values that im not a corrupted skank like most girls he hangs out with. do you feel like no guy would want to waste his time dating me cuz i guess i come across as prude to them and kinda shy, not willing to let loose?

My mom constantly judges me for having sex?

I'm 20 years old, from a pretty strict catholic family. My parents are very old fashioned and believe you should only have sex when married. They both waited. Although some might think it's a good idea, I just think the idea is old fashioned and a little unrealistic. Maybe that was the thing to do 30 years ago but in this day and age I feel like hardly anyone waits anymore. She was furious when she found out I lost it at 17 and lectured me about it forever. She calls me bad names and thinks I'm easy for having sex with someone I love. I came home drunk one night and my birth control fell out of my pocket. She was disgusted and called me a skank. I thought I was being responsible for putting myself on it but I guess not. Everytime I go out with a guy she accuses me of having sex with them and saying they are using me and they will leave me once they get sex. I respect her for waiting, but it's my life not hers, and I'm an adult so I can make my own decisions. How do I just get her to accept it though and move on and stop judging me?

Will losing weight change body shape?

If you are one of those people with really crappy body figure you have no choice but to exercise and be a healthy eater, otherwise you will be quite disgusting. Remember, you have no choice, healthy foods, and exercise all your life.

HOW IS THIS!? 10 Points!?

I would seriously watch that show. The dynamic between the family should be a bit, how do I say this, more deeper, for lack of a better word. But the comedy was good and pretty refreshing and I like'd it.

My pupils are just naturally quite dilated?

Well I think they are. They are normally quite big and then some boy noticed (who is SO annoying and who I really dislike!) and was like, 'OOH your pupils are really big... That only happens when you like what you see ;)' And he is like some nerdy boy (not saying there is anything wrong with being clever!) but I have a strong dislike for him for reasons to long to explain but anyway it has really annoyed me! Like who does he think he is?! And he was really serious and started telling everyone about it. I felt really self-conscious and he just told loads of people. I mean why do my pupils always dilate? I have heard that when you look at someone you like they dilate but I mean I am a generally happy person (sorry, it doesn't really come across in this!) so is it because i'm happy? And I also wear contact lenses, would that make a difference? Thanks! :)

What's the best subwoofers?

What's the strait up best bass system? What's the best setup? Everything. Subs, amps, capactior, etc. Tell me how to make my vehicle bang! I have no price limit...but I'd like to stay under $4000

How do you get a guy to notice you without looking like a skank?

be interested in THEM. Be interested in them as a PERSON or an individual and not as a gender. That way, they'll see as a person as well and not a sex object. None of that 'pretend' interest. It has to be genuine or they'll see right through it and dismiss you as a fake.

How do I know if I broke my nose?

It is quite possible that you have broken your nose and sounds like you might have a concussion as well. You really need to get to hospital asap, call an ambulance if you can't get there any other way

Should I try switch hitting? What are the benefits and drawbacks? And what drills would help?

I'm going to be a junior next year and I've been playing baseball all my life. Im naturally a right handed batter and thrower. But I write, and play tennis/ping pong with my left hand. I've just always wondered if I could switch hit. I'm a pretty good right handed hitter so I don't wan to really screw my swing up but when I swing left handed people say it looks pretty natural. I just want some input

I'm thinking of opening an all Strait Gym. No gays aloud. What is a "politically correct" way to state that?

My lawyer said that if I said "gays need not apply", I could get sewed by some guy called Glad. What are some good ways to get around that?

Pregnant at 17 and torn in two?

I dont think you should be asking this on here. Its a very sensitive issue. Do what you feel in your heart. What you feel is right. I wish I could help, but this is all you..

Can my dentist remove my braces after 4-5 months if they are really strait?

I've had my braces for 2 years and they have been strait for almost a year now and I'm still in them so it will take time

Let's create a word for male skanks?

We already have the male equivalent to "BIMBO";"HIMBO" But what about a male skank?

Help me please! I am terrified of my brother!?

I understand it it normal to have an occasional brawl and all but he is very dangerous. I am 14 almost 15 and he is 16 going on 17. He is a junior in high school and ever sine I could remember he has been incredibly abusive to me and my sister. He just got finished hitting me and i have a large purple bruise on my back and it hurts to walk. He's even chocked me to unconciousness and has made me convulse on more than one occasion. I'm afraid to tell my mom because i dont want her to stress about it, but I'm feeling like I have no choice because he tends to aim at my head and I,m starting to have really bad head aches and my grades are lowering incredibly. I use to be a strait A student now I'm getting C's and It's very hard to stay awake in class. What should I do? I have already spoken to him about it but he only shrugged and told me I deserve everything I get.

Why do strait guys buy lesbians things?

i do have a question. why do strait guys buys lesbians things? i have lots of strait male friends who buy me things. like movie tickets, drinks, clothes.

How do i tell my parents i want to be scene?

im in 7th grade and i want to be scene.ive been interested in this for a while and im wondering how can i tall my parents?im not a bad kid i get strait A's and im in advanced class but i think scene shows my personality...so how will i tell my parents???

Is that one Rebecca Black song about me?

Your name looks like one pronounced: 'Free�dah'. It looks like Becky is singing about 'Fry�duh', or Friday. She want to have sex on Friday.

Help! My Little Sister Has To Go To Court! What Do I Do?

okay so theres this girl in my little sisters class, who is legitly fat,, she is 250 and in the 7th grade and she called me sister a fat trashy hoe and my sister came home crying so me and my brother were looking for here and when we found her she called me a stupid skank and my brother a walking std and none of us are any of those, so i asked what she said and she said i called u a stupid skank and shooved me, so i hit her and my brother said if she tells any one this she will be hit harder and this time by my little sister, and instead she goes to her dad who is a cop and says that my sister harrased her and **** and now my sister has tio go to court. what do i do?

So, there's this guy... help?

There's a guy I like at school. I've known him for about 2 years. He's amazing. He's sweet to everyone. He's helpful to everyone. He's a boy genius. All the teachers love him. Al the students love him. Picture the epitome of greatness in a teenage boy, and you've got who I'm talking about. Anyways, he's never had a girlfriend. He has asked one girl out, but sadly she told him no. Me and him used to text all the time. Our convos would last from around 4 in the afternoon until 2 in the morning during the summer and we texted almost every day. Now we don't text as much, but when we do our conversations are still pretty long. This past school year he and a good friend of mine got to know one another better. Now he texts with my friend all the time, and they have a lot in common too. She told me one night that he asked her if they had anything going with one another and she said "possibly." She's a good girl. She's not like your average skank hoe girl from high school. She's smart like him, and she's funny too. So yeah, he likes her. She likes him. And I also like him. The thing is I can't tell him I like him. I'm TOO shy. It's amazing how shy I am when it comes to a guy that I like. And also it would sound pretty bad if I did in fact tell my friend that I like the guy she likes after about 2 months of her telling me how much she likes him. I love this guy. I don't think I'm in love with him anymore... but I care a lot about him, so I may never "get over" him. Any advice on how to handle this?

How to put eyeliner on,help?

i would recommend to use a gel or cream liner for the upper lashline. cheap ones that work great are Maybelline Eyestudio gel liner or the Wet n Wild gel line. i would say black is the best color, but use brown for a more natural look. start at the center of the lid, as close to the lashline as possible. work your way out, to where you would add a wing. then start at the inner half of the lid and work your way to the middle. use a small mirror and look down on it so you can see what you do step by step. use VERY short strokes, and be slow. don't rush! also, to make your lashes stand out more, tightline your eyes. basically, that's like lining your water line, but at the top water line. use a gel, cream or pencil liner for this.

How to be a skank??? thats the only way i can get attention?

LOLOLOLL TROLOLOLOLOL, this has to be thee most ****** up question i've ever read. Have fun being mistaken as a prostitute ;)

What makes you suuuuper mad?

I HATE when people use the word "merk." The color brown. Oh, and I hate when girls like flirt or date EVERYONE. Like, my one friend has either talked, or flirted with all these people. And thier all friends. She's such a skank. Like, she goes around saying shes ugly and fat, but next she's wearing short shorts and tank tops and flirting with every guy on the planet. She dos'nt even like any of the guys that she talks to, like she will send them nudes and be all flirty just to get called pretty, but then she'll say she hates them next. Hahah,k whatever. But, What pisses you off? Please feel free to explain.

How to dye my hair pink from black?

bleach it with the softest product you can find then get a trim if you can and use leave in conditioner and dye your hair pink :)

I'm going to get a job but I don't know if I can cope with it with my Anxiety/Depression/BorderlineP…

Well, you probably won't be able to cope with a new job since you already have your mind made up that you can't handle it. The truth is you won't know unless you try. Having a job is very different that going to classes in college so there is no way for you to know if you're going to break down. You can at least go to the new job with a positive attitude and try.

Why would i feel this way?

ok, well.... lately i have found myself, well. flirting with guys. three different times i was out with Friends or something and id see a guy. i would look at em then hed look back. id wink at him. he would smile. i wouldn't/nor would i let him take it any father then that. this feels weird because i thought i was into girls. it gets a little more complicated though. i have been asked out by a couple girls. i always sed no, and i blamed the no on that i have a thing with a different chick.. but i never take it to the next level of actually dating. i don't know why though. i am extremely confused on this. im i gay because i am starting things with different guys, and not going out with any girls? am i Bi because i want to go out with a girl, and starting things up with guys? or am i strait because i don't take things any farther with guys, but i will with girls? i am really worried about this and need some advise plz!

Help thinking of names for a few characters?

Main character sounds a lot like Harry Potter, and since James is harry's dad name and his middle name I wouldn't like it Imo. Jace sounds good however, and you'll want a casual name that's not weird but not too formal. For the girl.....Carly? Callie? Christa? Julie? Julia? Hailey?

Whats the worst thing that ever happened to your hair?

Any coloring horror stories? I'll share mine...I have naturally dark hair but I wanted to dye it blonde. Before this, it had been colored auburn (redish brown) but that had faded away. I bought medium blonde dye and covered my hair in it....my hair turned out ORANGE. O.O it was terrible haha but now I'm back to brown and everything is okay, just working on getting my hair healthy.

How can I lose weight while making my boobs bigger?

My friend and I are seeing who can lose the most weight before October, but I really don't wnat to lose what little I have of my boobs. I'm 13 and a 34b, but used to be a 36c before we started dieting. How can I make my boobs their original size again, naturally? Is it even possible?

Do guys generally pick the prettier girl?

hey, im usually confident, infact i never say i look bad or anything, if i get a compliment i say thanx :) and i generally dont think i look bad.... im not perfect, but im comfortable with myself :) BUT... there is this girl, she is so much prettier than me, and i know thats bad to say, and i know its annoying when people say that, but its so true.... she is HOT and POPULAR :L and is not a skank at all, and she dated this guy im really into, she broke up with him, i think because she didnt think he was good enough for him, she felt bad about it tho.... but i really like this guy, and i think he misses her, im not 100% sure, but im not sure if i have a chance when she is looking so fine :L .... does looks somewhat matter to a guy? will she be all he ever thinks about? or do i have a chance?

What to do about a hoe-friend that lies about everything?

my friend use to do that all the time but, like, she lied about other stuff and all. either overwhelm her with guilt by being really nice and truthful (works EVERY time, as long as she isnt a b*tch) oh and trust me! karma works!!!!!!! it was the perfect revenge, i got mad at her so i drove off without her, sh had to walk home, the one day it was raining, LOL!!!!! lets see...oh! start lying to her! but not about the same stuff. it will get to her eventually. she'll hopefully get the hint. good luck. this is the advantage of being creative, in njhs (smart peoples club), perfect behavior at school and at home. yet, i am actually very evil...

I need help with this b*tch in my school...?

Okay, so, I'm 13, and this girl is 14. She rides my bus, & she's about 7 inches taller than me, & she talks alot of **** about me. One thing that pissed me off more than anything, was there was a picture of me and these girls on Facebook, and she felt the need to comment and be like "Wow! you guys are all gorgeous...except Emily..." & thats me. So, anyway, she always wants to talk all this **** about me, yet she wont say anything to me face. We've had history and she wanted to fight me, but she was gonna bring people and I'm not down with that. So what should I do? & some things about her, shes more masculine than feminine, shes a slut & shes already slept with someone and she's in the 8th grade (i'm in 7th), shes like, in all honesty (and not because i hate the skank) like, the ugliest person i've ever seen..she looks like a witch. So, anything I can say to back her down and stop talking sh*t about me? Thanks (:

Will I really damage my hair if I dye it again tomorrow?

I have naturally light brown hair (with some highlights from the sun) and tried to dye it a bit lighter today with Loreal Excellence in 'natural dark blonde,' it has actually gone darker! I'd say it's now medium brown... Can I try again with a lighter shade tomorrow? Or will it all fall out/totally muck it up?

Whats up with the double standards for celebrities?

I think that people should let Selena and Justin be.. Its their life.. Selena is 18 not 19..Dont know why Justins fans are making such a big fuss about him dating Selena..

Whats wrong with him!!!!????(GUY)?

So long story short. So i have an ex bf named sam me and him dated all the way from freshman year to junior year summer I am now a senior. He cheated on me. So any way I was at a party and he was there to (first of all let me start by saying I am a teenager and i do dance on guys who cares its a party) this really really hott guy was sitting down and he pulled me over to him to dance i was grinding on his lap dancing and then i turned around faceing him dancing. we were dancing fo about 20 min and then out of no where sam comes over tripping out calling me a whore and slut and skank and talking about how he hates me and never wnts to talk to me again. I honestly dont know whats wrong with him we have been brokkenn up for MONTHS! whats his deal?

Does this make me a skank?

Oh wow!..this is long..lol..but i write long messages all the time. Okay first of all..i don't think you're a skank..yall have no sex and you only do all this love dovy and kissy kissy with one guy. This girl that called you a skank..Oh good lord! i wouldn't feel all confident if i was that *****..Just saying she uses guys as toys..okay that's a skank..doesn't really like the guys they're using..just wants other girls to get jealous..yeah that's a skank..You're okay..and don't worry about what this girl is saying..she is probably trying to break yall up so she can have him and use him..or whatever. Good luck to you=)...

Does this make sense to you?

You are the best in this world. Do whatever you want to do. There is no need to ask friends or look towards others. :-)

Housemate playing mind games?

He slaps my butt all the time and pushes me around. He always tries to make me angry and then giggles over it. Like ill be sitting on the couch and hell lay on it and stick his feet in my face and tries to put his toes in my mouth or ear. He acts so immature sometimes, but other times he protective and seriouse. Like the other day he got himself covered in burn marks cuz' I was an idiot and put vegetable oil on a heated pan and it spurted everywhere and he grabbed me and went in front of me so I didn't get anything, though I got it on my arm, he got it all over his back and legs, just everywhere..I felt horrible. A while back he freaked out cuz' he didn't want me to go to prom with my bf because he believed I was gonna loose my virginity. Which I wouldn't do, I'm not a slutty skank lol. Tonight he realy made me want to smack him, I was putting the cookies we made earlier into baggies and he came up behind me and put his hands on my shoulders and slowly slide them down to my hips and I pushed back and I knew my face was scarlet red, and he laughed at me! We're the same age and have been living together since we were 15 for two years and our relationship has gotten so complicated and confusing, I don't what to make of it. It has my friends (including guys) thinking we're in the sack and some people in the our family are questioning us. I deny everything cuz' I have a bf, but idk about him, he has a gf though..I think he acts this way because his gf and me are complete opposites, she's shy and innocent and I'm loud and not afriad to say what's on my mind. Any advice or help, please no immature answers!

How is this question a violation of yahoo answers guidelines?

if it looks like a frog and quacks like a duck it must be bad so report it. yep that is correct , so I have also been told fredo frog

How can i dye black asian hair, to a medium kind of brown?

my asian friend wants me to dye her hair a medium brown colour, and atm it is black (naturally black but also been dyed then dyed black again). So how would i do this, at home? Keeping in mind that she is an asian, so she has asian hair! Do i just get a lighter hair dye and use that, or? Thanks.

He slept with another girl!! HELP!?

Morgan... you guys were broken up right??? and although that doesnt help how you feel it still shouldnt make a difference... if he didnt want to have sex with her then why didnt he leave??? and why does he feel it is necessary to lie and tell her hes geeting smokes??? to me it sounds like you are the other woman... i think you bshould try and move on

I need help now!!!!!!!!!!!!?

There is a girl who is so 2 faced and called me a skank and i want to get into a fight with her but i told her that if she brings her boyfriend and her hard mates she will be in so much trouble. Should i bring people with me in case she does?

HOW DO U KNOW WHEN U SPOT A SKANK?..WHEN SHE..?

I think whenshe has shaved eyebrows and drawn on w.eyeliner and plays with her tounge ring..feel free to get offended..tell me ur opinion..or agree IT'S A GAME +10EASY POINTS IF I AGREE

Is my hair and skin combo weird?

I have medium-dark brown hair, brown eyes, and very pale skin that doesn't tan. I feel weird because most people with skin like mine have blonde, red, or light brown hair and the people with my hair color have naturally darker skin. Is my hair and skin color weird?

How do I not let sexual tension interfere with a friendship?

I 'm a cancer and my friend is a taurus, so we are naturally kind of attracted to each other and have chemistry, but we're not compatible in other ways and I don't want to get into a relationship with him, but he's a great friend and makes me feel secure. I am afraid I am hurting him by saying I only want to be friends, and i've explained to him that its not because he's unattractive, just because I don't want to get myself in trouble. He keeps coming back and can't control himself, tries to make the moves on me etc. and I gently and kindly let him know that he's making me uncomfortable. So I would like to know, is there any way I can not let this sexual tension interefere with our friendship without hurting him?

My teacher found out I made a mean video about her?

As a teacher, I can understand the both of you. People your age are still unaware of reality. You're immature because you are still testing people and playing with their feelings to learn from the experience. You can tell her that you've thought about what you did and that you felt pressured. You should try your best to grow up and avoid doing things for the fun of seeing the end result. This could affect your whole life, so take it easy on yourself. You could forgive yourself by seeking peace within yourself and without the need of her forgiveness. That's a major lesson in the real world: we don't always get the forgiveness so we must find peace with what we can. One day, when you're all grown and working in something decent, come back to visit her and ask her forgiveness again. Good luck, child!

How do I make Custom Duke Nukem 3D Levels?

I can't find a strait up tutorial on how to do this. I herd there's a book that comes with the game that says how to, but i got my version online so I don't have one. I have herd of programs like 'Mapster',but i don't know how to get those programs. What program do I use and how do I use it?

How to get rid of orange from bleached hair?

My hair naturally red but it was medium brown before I bleached it! I dont want to hear how bad it is for my hair the damage is done but now it is a yellow orange colour all over and I really dont want to bleach it again. How can I get it to my desired platinum blonde!!!!!!! I want a toner that will actually work something not too expensive but will do the job or should I buy a blonde box dye kit!

I'm very self conscious about being quiet?

i too used to be calm and quiet. i still am but with me its not noticeable as i still can be very out going. its not always a bad thing, take me for example, as a result of being calm and quite, ive become a good listener, making it easier for me to make friends as im a good listener most times. alot of the time the reason for being quiet is because your worried about wether what you could say is the right things. you want your friends to hear what they want to hear from you and you might think its best not to say anything rather than say something wrong. if i was you, id just say what you think sometimes and see how they react to it. hope this helps

Which way is most enjoy full..living by following the nature or living by following the world ?

the human has always choices keep self naturally or make self worldly."REAL SELF" stay as it is.follow the "mind" or stay its own "kind". thanking in advance. viraat.

How to build muscle naturally?

In order to get that perfect body, do you need supplements? I hear mixed reviews about supplements, and I also heard that there are only a select few supplements that actually work? Protein is key, I sure of that, but what foods are high in protein?

GOOD comeback on facebook?

Kristi, are you and your boyfriend living together? i know that what i am about to say is bad, but i would definitely say something on the post. something like, "yes my boyfriend is hot and he always comes home to me!" she knows this and your comment will probably make her mad and perhaps, insecure. so what? she started all of this. yes, you have to watch out what you say on Facebook, but my suggestion is not a wrong thing to say because it's true, sincere but assertive, not aggressive. good luck, Kristi. :<)

Why is hitting a girl wrong?

According to some made-up law girls can hit girls, girls can hit guys, guys can hit guys but guys can't hit girls. Why not? IMO, anyone who thinks hitting girls is wrong is a sexist because they are giving girls different rights to guys just because their girls. Also, if it's because guys are supposed to be naturally stronger than girls then the girl shouldn't pick a fight with the guy should she? BTW, when I say 'why it is wrong for a guy to hit a girl' I mean I defense, I don't mean for no reason

My naturally straight hair turned curly, help?

I was born with naturally straight hair until now, my hair turned curly. So now my hair just dries curly and I don't know how this happened. I used to have really long hair so the curls were more like waves and it was only a few pieces of hair so it wasn't noticeable but I got a haircut today and the hairdresser cut it way too short so now it's shoulder length and it turned even more curly and noticeable. I have no idea how this happened, I'm only 14 years old but I'm turning 15 in two months. Help?

Mark Knopfler to play with The Straits at Newcastle City Hall?

Does anyone know if Mark Knopfler will be making an appearance when The Straits perform at Newcastle City Hall this October? Do you know who is in the line up?

I love learning about the Holocaust Does that make me Racist?

It just means that you are interested in History and The Holocaust in particular, and not that you are a racist.

Should I breakup with GF because son hates her or wait it out?

2 years ago my son (who i didnt know i had before that...long story) came to live with me and we have been through some major stuff and all but are getting things worked out now, i love him, and think things will be cool. problem: I have had gf for about 3 years (we were dating before i found out i had son...) anyways she is very nice to son, always has been and she is willing to wait a while till things settle down more and all (but seems to be pretty impatient now, but doesn't wanna breakup), but my son (15 years old) can not stand her at all. I have talked with him and everything, long story short, not only does he see her as stealing me away from him but he thinks she is a skank, along with all women (his mom situation was very bad). i have tried to talk to him, but he still hates her. Should I break up with gf for my son, or would that be bad, like, too much on him ya know? i dont want him to feel guilty or like its his fault i break up, but i also just really dont think i should keep dating if he really hates her that much. and honestly, our relationship has been crumbling anyways, probably my fault. but anyways, what do you all think?

Why does he stay with me?

He obviously isn't fully invested in the relationship like you are. What you thought started out at so great and so strong might have just been a fling for him. You know by now that you can't make someone have feelings that you want them to have so my best advice for you would be to just start distancing yourself from this guy. It's going to suck and it's going to be hard at first but you're going to find that you're better off without him. If someone doesn't want to hang out with you as much as you want to hang out with him, then he isn't the perfect match you thought he was. You're idealizing him, you're making him out to be so much better than he is because you're in love with him and you're failing to admit that you can do better and you will do better when you just let him go an dmove on. Everyone deserves to be loved. So let yourself have that. This guy might not be a horrible person, he just isn't in love with you.

Does This Girl Like Me?

your head is too big. i don't know how you can even walk through a door. calm the hell down. seriously. baby steps.

My ex boyfriends new girlfriend is harrassing me??? Help!?

Okay so I dated this guy awhile ago, and I've been with my new boyfriend for 2 months. Me and my ex still stay in contact. We talk on facebook occasionally, and text sometimes. He just got with this new girl a week or 2 ago, and now on Fb she gets on his account and starts IMing be a bunch of really weird stalker stuff. Then she says she wants to beat me up, but she only keeps it cyber! haha. She never calls me to confront the issue. I dont have her number so I cant try to fix anything. When I do try to make amends with her, shes just a b*tch. She always calls me a hoe and a skank but I dont wear slutty clothes and I'm a virgin, plus I'm pretty sure I'm not a garden tool. I have no idea what to do, because I wanted a drama free summer! She's my only hater (that I know of) I find all of this ridiculous especially because she's a year older than me, and I'm the only one trying to be mature about the situation.

Graduation party outfit? *tenpoints*?

Okay, so today I'm going to my friend's graduation party. It's not fancy or anything;it's a barbecue. So the other day was my graduation, and I wore a pretty low cut dress. That isn't too important though. So today, I was planning on wearing some new shorts, and some random shirt. The shorts are Aero, and they are pretty short. I'm not fat, but I'm not skinny if you know what I mean. SO I'm kind of scared to wear these shorts, because I don't want people thinking that I'm a slut/skank or something like that. Especially since I wore that dress before. So what should I do? There will be my guy classmates there, and my friend's older sister and her friends, and her parents. PPPPPLLLLLEEEAAASEEE help! Thanks!

How do you become an Airline Pilot?

I assume you are a high school senior. So here goes #1 a college degree You will be competing with many other qualified pilots both civilian and military with vast experience. You may never get the airline job you want so you should make the most of college. If you are serious start at your local airport find out the cost per hour of flight instruction . Build time 36 hours min for a private pilots license.You dont start at a DELTA .An aviation college FIT ,PERDUE, and others train you thru private ,instrument , commercial ,instructor ,multiengine certification. As an instructor you build time at someone elses expense. Any flying job available check the safety record of the company ,the manitenance log of the owners logbook. Its a very long haul at dam near minimum wage . Why you would want to cross off the military is beyond me.It the best training in the world and uncle sam is paying for it.The commitment is for at least 6 years and you might find you actually like it. Find out what they offer. The airline industry goes thru feast and famine cycles ,many qualified pilots are on furlough right now looking for jobs outside of the industry.You have to have a college degree,or perhaps a background or trade to fall back on. A pilot freind of mine makes a good livieng while also flying for a major cargo airline as an electrician,another as an accountant .another as a financial planner.Im a retired airline pilot it a great career but it takes a lot of luck .Out of the military i had a choice of eastern,twa or American .American paid $25 more per month than the other two so a choose American. See what i mean both twa & eastern are gone luck !! I d give my email but its already overloaded with input best of luck.

As a strait 14 year old.I need to know what's the best way to have a good singing .?

My voice is is pretty deep and when I sing my vice cracks.I can only sing mellow songs.I can sing but only in my normal voice and I want to be more With the beat

What is wrong with me?

You need to find a hobby or relaxing activity to take your mind of thoughts of paronoia. It may be hard but wheneber i go for a walk, my mind is clear and im happy. I hope you can find your sanctuary like i have.

Poll: Yes or no? (see details)?

You think that's bad, Muse over this. I Can tell you some stories that would give you The Wiggles; Yes, you'd need a good Heart to hear about The Clash that took place because some kid had a Badfinger, and there was a shortage of Cream. The doctor said he didn't have The Cure, but he was placing a New Order, and was hoping to get a batch from Boston in the next few days.

Relationship advice. Confused sexuality?

I was recently involved in a very very unconventional relationship with my best friend. I am an 16 year old female who fell in love with her best friend. She is of course, a girl. The feeling did turn out to be mutual and we went through a lot exploring this love. I did consider myself strait prior to this but now it has obvioulsy stirred my once certain sexuality. This question is far to long to post so if you are interested in helping me please email me, petrocco_alyssa@yahoo.com. your help is apreciated greatly due to the fact that this was such an important thing that happened in my life. My advice pertains to what i should do now after we have been intamite. Can we find just a normal friendship again? shoul we be friends? is this even possible? most importantly what do i do now? I did end up with my heart broken and my sexuality confused. I find it hard to look at men and be attracted, let alone wake up every morning. When i look at other women i desire them so much and i feel ashamed. Help!

When it comes to an affair, how come the wife or girlfriend always blames the "other woman"?

That's how the mind of a woman works. I don't undersatnd it either. Must be some genetic thing that says "I need to attack my rivals".

I have light skin and light blue eyes, what hair colour would suit me the most?

my hair is naturally dark blonde but i don't think it suited me, so i dyed it light blonde, this doesn't suit me either ):

About mixed populations?

As the human population increases, the number but not necessarily ratio of people in poverty will increase, also, sometimes at a higher rate, especially when the economy is bad as it is right now. Areas that were once prominent will be occupied by poor people, who are more likely to commit crimes for survival/drugs.

What is the first step into the sex industry?

If you're underage -and it looks like it- it is illegal. It's called statutory rape, even if you consent. Stay in school and don't do it.

Can 12 year olds use breast cream?

well, sinc you havent finished developing yt, it probably wont be able to help. at all. I was flat until 6th grade, and as a rising sophomore in high school, i'm a DD. trust me. they'll shoot out. (:

Anyone else miss the 80s when grown men sang songs about grown women and grown-up stuff?

Peter Cetera, Genesis, Dire Straits, Billy Joel, Brian McKnight, Bon Jovi to name a few........I'm sick of these little kids singing songs about what they don't have a clue, instead of going to school.

Misdemeanor and custody case?

Im in the middle of a custody battle and i have a very serious question to ask. i had a misdemeanor possession of paraphernalia against me over 6 years ago and was wondering if that will have any hold against me in court i have since not used any drugs and have raised my kids in a non drug or alcoholic environment i am very adamant about giving my kids the best chance they can have against that stuff because i know what drugs do to you so do you think that it will make a difference seeing as how i have honestly changed my life and have been walking the strait n narrow since then??

I can't cope with the bullying, please help?

Here is some background information. I went out with a boy called Ollie in year 5. I thought I was in love (naive I know) but he only done it to 'shut me up'. He said I was the worst mistake of his life and that he hated me. I dumped him and moved on. I started going out with his best mate in year 6 for 2 and a half years, and during this time Ollie was surprisingly nice to me. However towards the end of year 7 Ollie and his mate Brad started hitting me, insulting me and making my school life a living hell. I eventually got them to stop and until now things were fine. A few months ago, Ollie came up to me at school and punched me in the head. He then walked away as if nothing had happened. I was shaking and his mates let it happen. They stood and laughed as I walked off in pain. When my friends arrived, Ollie stared at them and started making faces at them. I told my Dad and he reported it to the school and threatened to call the police. Ollie denied it and said I was lying. I stated that I had no reason to speak or have anything to do with him, so why would I lie? His friend Brad held his hands up and apologised. He then started slagging me off on the bus. He denied everything and spread rumours that I was a trouble making whore. This all started after me and Jaydon split up. The past few weeks have been hell. Since I have gotten with my new boyfriend, Brandon, the abuse has rocketed. Ollie was making disgusted noises at me and Brandon and kept saying 'Why Brandon, she's a skank' 'You're so gay for being with that'. Brandon doesn't care what negative things anyone has to say. He has reassured me that he loves me and that's all that matters. When Ollie threatened to assault me again, Brandon laughed and shook it off. He just lead me away and when I said Ollie was a dick, Brandon said loudly 'What? Ollie's a dick?!'. He done this because he doesn't know the full extent of what has happened, and me and Brandon joke around like that but I told him and he stopped laughing. Basically I can't put up with the comments, the violence, the abuse all together. It's ripping me up and is making me believe that I am worthless. Please, if any suggestions, let me know, The teachers never sort anything, and they can't stop him hurting me at break or lunch. The police is not an option, as it will make everyone hate me. Please, I can't go on.

Is there anyway i can get my hair permitaly shrait?

I cant live with my curly poofy frizzy hair anymore im don't with it i don't want to deal with it at all is there anyway i can get it permitly strait? i cant go to the pool with my friends because im worried about it after wards and they have to see me like that... Its U.G.L.Y!! HELP PLEASE!

My little sister told me something insanely bad and i dont know what to do.?

I disagree with Powder. I do agree that it's important that your parents know if she is really pregnant, but your younger sister should be the one to tell them. You should encourage your sister to tell your parents, and you can be there for her to give courage and support. She and your folks will need it. Her life doesn't have to be over. She should consider adoption. There are many couples willing and waiting to give that child a good and loving home.

What is this called? and How to get rid of This Sickness?

I woke up (8am) and felt really hungry my stomach was hurting really bad so i eat cereal then threw it all up. I had diarrhea all day. Everything i eat and drunk went strait threw me or i threw it up. MY stomach was hurting really bad. Then on the side, im about to start my period so i was having cramps. i finally went back to sleep and when i woke up at 4pm, i went to drink something and it didn't seem to come up our out and i also had some apple sauce and it didn't come out or up. But i still have that sick feeling. And my stomach still hurts (idk if that's cause my period coming or not cause of my cramp) and i still have diarrhea. Also when i get up to walk im ditsy and my tummy hurts. I really have no food inside me cause everything i did eat came up or out :/ so yeah what is this called. I though it was food poison. How do i get rid of this?

Help? how to tell a gay guy your strait without hurting him?

At school I stood up for a gay kid and we have been hanging out but he tried to hold my hand and things are awkward now and well I know 100% that I am not gay because I only ever have had crushes on girls. So should I just tell him I am strait or what?

How can i look sexier without looking like a skank?

DRESS CLASSY NOT SKANKY , CUTE DRESSES , NOT ONE THAT ARE ALL BOOBS N LEGS .DONT OVERDUE MAKEUP ALL YOU NEED FOR DAYTIME IS FOUNDATION , LIL BIT BLUSHER N MASCARA . IF YOU TAN OR WEAR TAN DONT HAVE IT ORANGE , GET A GOOD QUALITY ONE NOT A CHEAP ONE AND DONT GO ON THE BEDS TO MUCH . I LIKE TO KEEP MY HAIR DOWN BUT I ALWAYS STRAIGHTEN IT UNLESS IM DOING FEW CURLS FOR NIGHTS OUT . IF YOU HAVE BIG THIGHS , ALWAYS WEAR DRESSES PAST YOUR THIGHS , EVEN FOR SKINNY THIGHS THAT CAN LOOK SKANKY . GIRLS ALWAYS LOOK BETTER AND CLASSIER WITH THEM A LIL BIT LONGER . XXX

Are all guys the same? I just want to find someone who doesnt want to look at every girl that walks by?

Or says insensitive things. And doesn't lie. I'm pretty and no I'm not one of those shallow conceded girks. But I do know that I'm attracted and I have a lot of guys who hit on me. I have dated losers and now I'm dating a kinda needy guy thinking he would appreciate me more than the jerks in the past and no I'm wrong. He comments on other girls in front of me, he doesn't act happy to see me, and he says the most insensitive things. He lied to me about smoking weed even tho I said I don't give a damn. Even flirted with this skank *** married girl at work in front of me. Why are most guys like this?

I REALLY need help with this. pleaseeee read :( :(?

okay, well i was dating my boyfriend for over a year now and we've gotten into some pretty heated arguments which we typically resolved. i'm the type of person that likes to talk things out right away while he likes to completely get away from it all. we've broken up once before and after some time of not speaking very much we worked our way back up to being in a relationship. everything was going really great and we rarely argued or got into any confrontations. up until recently...the other day he was talking about how he chills with this girl once in awhile (this girl is also known for being a skank and i've always been a little uncomfortable with him hanging out with her even if it's just for a quick talk) typically the only time he really sees her is when she comes into his work but i dunno. all i really said was that she makes me uncomfortable but i trust him and we got over it. later that night we went out to dinner and saw this girl who happened to be friends with the girl he sometimes hangs out with and i pointed that out to him and he was like oh really i don't know her. when we sat at our table she came up and was like hey i met you the other night. so i got a little creeped out and started asking him about it. he got really defensive and upset that i would get upset over that cause he said he didn't recognize her and that they just came into his work. it got to the point where we left the restaraunt and drove back to my house. i asked him to come in so we could talk and he didn't want to at all. i got really upset by this and started crying saying i was sorry for bringing it up. he kept telling me to get out of the car but my mind shut down from being so upset that i couldn't get myself to get out of the car. after awhile i got out and he was still really angry and told me to leave him alone and that he needed space. i said that i didn't want it to leave off like that and he said we always fix our **** and then he left. i apologized the next morning through a text and didn't say anything after. i gave him space and didn't try contacting him until...i met up with one of my friends yesterday and he told me that my boyfriend said we broke up. i was really confused by this cause i had no idea that was the case. so i texted him saying that if he wanted to break up then i would much rather hear it from him than one of my friends. he replied by saying all these nice things about me but the other night was too much for him to handle. i said that i was having a rough week since i just got out of school and have some problems at my house and reminded him that he said we always fix our stuff. he said he needed a break and that he has too much stress in his life. and that's how it left off. i texted him once more asking if this is sincerely what he wants and that i wasn't going to say anything else to him and he didn't respond. and that's the last attempt i made. i don't know what i should do at all. everything was fine up until this point, we both had really shitty weeks and i thought we could get past this after a couple of days. please give me some advice for what to do, i'm at a loss.

Why cant i get employed?

When you goto your interview for a low level labor type job don't over dress for the position. There are also so many student jobs out there so you need to get out earlier to get one before they are filled.

Cramps for 2 days and no period yet?

i have had period cramps for 2 days strait and i have no period yet. Is this normal? last time ( the first period) i had cramps all day and then around 4:00 i got my period.

Which fuse is best for sound system?

I have a 2004 chevy trailblazer and I recently put in a new sound system. So I had to remote wire from the cd player to the fuse box to get it power, and naturally I chose the radio fuse. But the cd player and the amp stay on when i turn the car off. I'm guessing its because the door chimes and lights run off that fuse as well. So which Fuse should I remote wire to so that the cd player and amp will power down with the car?

How do i keep my hair strait?

I have a shoulder length bob and my hair layers always flick out and when I straiten it it only stays strait for about 30 minutes how can I keep it strait all day

What should i do? i need help. hair breakage?

okay so i have dyed my hair black for 3 months now, i stopped dying it for a month and wanted to go back to my natural color.. well as close to it as i could get, i went to a salon and they stripped my hair of the black, my hair broke. "hair breakage" they continued to dye it and put a light brown on the top. my hair color is now light brown, but i have naturally straight hair nice and smooth and now its rough and broken. the person who did my hair gave me leave in conditioner, but i went home and piled on tons of conditioner on it now. should i sleep with it in? would that help any? my hair has never been like this b4 i have no idea if leaving it in over night will help any.. Help plz?

How do I get my wife to do more kinky stuff?

I had quite a dating life and it left me with a taste for some kinky stuff in the bedroom every one in a while. One girlfriend used to like handcuffs and be bossed around, Another for instance is one of my ex girlfriends used to dress me up in her clothes when I was younger. She would do the whole treatment Shave, makeup, garters, corset, fake nail etc. She was a topless dancer and had tons of girly stuff like that. It took hours. Then she would do very naughty things to me. very naughty. It was really fun because of all the attention and "kinkiness." She had bi tendencies and I think she really liked it. She would always comment on "those lips, oh those lips" when ever she had the lip stick on me. I really didn't like this at first but after a few times it was kinda fun. I would be embarrassed for anyone to see me like that and it wouldn't happen very often. I dint look great that's for sure. It gave me a thrill sort of because it was naughty I guess. I'm strait and all but still it was fun. I am married now and much older. My wife dressed me up once just for fun and I wore some pantyhose once or twice but then she said she didn't want to do it anymore. It was disappointing because well with married sex you really need all kinds of different stuff to make it more exciting. It;s not like I wanted to do it all the time. Now sex is usually the same almost all the time and I wish I knew how to talk her into it again among other kinky things like tying her up etc. Any ideas on how to talk to her about doing different weird things like this? I'm kind of bored in the bedroom and anything different would help.

Graduation party outfit? *tenpoints*?

Okay, so today I'm going to my friend's graduation party. It's not fancy or anything;it's a barbecue. So the other day was my graduation, and I wore a pretty low cut dress. That isn't too important though. So today, I was planning on wearing some new shorts, and some random shirt. The shorts are Aero, and they are pretty short. I'm not fat, but I'm not skinny if you know what I mean. SO I'm kind of scared to wear these shorts, because I don't want people thinking that I'm a slut/skank or something like that. Especially since I wore that dress before. So what should I do? There will be my guy classmates there, and my friend's older sister and her friends, and her parents. PPPPPLLLLLEEEAAASEEE help! Thanks!

Relationship advice. heartbroken and confused.?

I was recently involved in a very very unconventional relationship with my best friend. I am an 16 year old female who fell in love with her best friend. She is of course, a girl. The feeling did turn out to be mutual and we went through a lot exploring this love. I did consider myself strait prior to this but now it has obvioulsy stirred my once certain sexuality. This question is far to long to post so if you are interested in helping me please email me, petrocco_alyssa@yahoo.com. your help is apreciated greatly due to the fact that this was such an important thing that happened in my life. My advice pertains to what i should do now after we have been intamite. Can we find just a normal friendship again? shoul we be friends? is this even possible? most importantly what do i do now? I did end up with my heart broken and my sexuality confused. I find it hard to look at men and be attracted, let alone wake up every morning. When i look at other women i desire them so much and i feel ashamed. Help!

Why Do Guys Fall In Love With Girls That Are Skanks & Treat Them Bad Instead Of Girls Who Treat Them Well?

I don't get it. And hotness is not a factor because his recent ex (the one he is so lovesick about because he fell for her) is not hot. And, as unconcededly as this can sound, I am a lot more attractive than her...so that's not the reason. I treated him so well, but he never fell for me, but he falls in love with this girl after a month and she's a skank. WTF?

My favorite artist is George Strait,?

george is one of my favorites. hard to choose a favorite song by him..out of random i'll go with "so much like my dad"

IS THIS FUNNY!? 10 Points!?

Wow sounds like a really good show whats the title?? Nd it is funny lol. I call dibs on playing the teenager(girl) lol whats the show about? I would most def watch it on tv

Prior misdemeanor and custody battle.?

You never even had a drug conviction...and it was 6 years ago...this stuff isn't going to affect you now.

Am i too tall to wear short shorts? PLEASE ANSWER?

I am twelve and I am 5'9 about. Really tall. So my mom says I'm really leggy. If I wear shorts i don't want them to look as if I'm wear little underwear. When I say short shorts I don't mean gross skank get ups like I mean upper middle thigh. Thank chu!

Is he seeing his ex again?

My boyfriend and I went through a messy seperation, when I discovered that he cheated on me. Since, we have been going to AA (for his alcoholism) and counseling for couples, to try and fix us. Well, while we were broken up he was living with the women he cheated on me with and her two kids. Although he has not been living with her and her kids for about 3 months now, my daughter has just started singing a song that she sang before when they were all together. To save identification of the people involved, I will just call these people Alice (her daughter) and Angela (the cheating homewrecking hoebag). My daughter has started to say Aaalice, Aaangela. Clear as day. She hasn't said those names in over 2 months and now all the sudden she is! It is wiggin me out. My boyfriend and I don't live together right now, and are just trying to get it together seperatly and take our time before rushing back under the same roof again, but I am freeked out! I don't know if she is just singing that again, because she knows it gets my attention, or if she even remembers those people or if she is just kinda remembering playing with the youngest daughter (Alice) and wonders where she is now. Angela has a facebook account, and it says that she is back with her ex husband and living on the other side of the state again. I asked my boyfriend about why she is singing that, and he tells me that maybe there is a toy or clothing or something that is reminding her of that skank and her kids, and he wants to have a garage sale or go to a mom to mom sale to get rid of EVERYTHING that she ever bought for our daughter that might remind her. Bottom line.... I feel like I am wigging out and losing my mind! I think it is time to exercise the right he has already given me to start checking his text messages and voicemails and such again. Maybe even get his password to see his facebook profile. Something for a reassurance.

Why are some women snobs?

I can be out with my friends and they'll roll their eye's at me. I cursed this stupid skank out yesterday for rolling her eyes at me. I said what your looking at bytch. And she just looked crazy and went on by her business. Why do someone act like that?

Is it fair for my stepmom to treat me like this?

My stepmom was just pregnant and she gained a bit of weight so I thinks he might be jealous. I'm 15. I want to wear a skirt. God forbid. I don't want to look like a skank. But when it's blazing hot outside I don't expect to wear tights. She was yelling at me to wear tights the other day under my skirt. It's one of the pencil skirts. All I was doing was going to the mall with my friends. Then a week ago I wore shorts that aren't below my butt and there normal. She stopped me and told me to put on longer shorts. And you gotta keep in mind I am from Florida. I'm dressing like a normal human being would on a hot day and she's yelling at me to cover up. Also throughout the year she always yells at me to wear a shaw or a cardigan over a tank top. It's so annoying but yeah my question is.. is it fair?

What is so bad about having sex?

So i asked a question on here about possibly being pregnant. I mentioned I was fourteen and now I got all this hate calling me a skank? What is wrong with having sex? Why are people so judgemental?

Is it right? What I said to this kid?

The one who can give the best answer to this is you. If you know you are right, why look for others words?

How would you describe this girl im confused about her?

She has had sex with around 5-6 guys in the past 3 months. I was thinking she is just a skank and nothing about her is worth being with. I read some of her poems we did in class and they were very deep and about falling in love. Is she confused about love or somthing in that direction. It;s hard opening up to her about how I feel when I am always hearing rumors about her. How would you describe her and how could i open up to her. In high-school.

What pill makes my hair grow longer/faster?

So my hair is up to my shoulder right now and I would love to find a pill or something that can make my hair grow up to my knee as fast as possible. I don't mind if the price is big or small, I'd just like to know the product. It really doesn't matter if it takes weeks or months, I just need my hair long as fast as possible. I'd prefer it thin, not thick, so if the pill/product makes your hair long AND thick then I'd not want that. My hair is naturally thick, but I thin it often. THANK YOU~!!! <3 <3 <3

Is she a "skank" and or "Slut"? She wants to have sex with my long term boyfriend.?

He told her that he loved me very much. She told him that his feelings for me should not preclude them having a sexual relationship. Am I wrong to refer to her as a "skank"?

Why do the media always show giving birth as deadly painful? Why do they do that?

So I am a 31 year old woman living in the US. I always see on TV that the media portrays giving birth as a very very very painful thing, like deadly painful. I really don’t know why they do that for example in the movie “Knocked Up” they showed the girl screaming like hell when she was giving birth. Why do the media do that? Doesn’t the media know that there is something called epidurals and pain killers and many other types of pain killers that could make you almost feel nothing. I have 3 kids and I have birth naturally to all of them, I only got some pain killers(not sure if they were even epidurals) and to be honest I didn’t feel pain, I only just felt a bit pressure. Are they just showing those painful acts so people won’t have babies and we don’t get overpopulation or what? Thanks

If I can't lift much weight the first few times deadlifting, does it mean I am not naturally very strong?

I am a 36 year old guy who is 5'8" and weigh about 171 pounds. For the past two years every other day I have been doing pull ups (5 sets of 10), push ups (75), planks, sit ups (50), leg lifts (50), bodyweight squats (30), and bodyweight lunges (24). I recently heard that deadlifting is the truest test of strength. So I tried to deadlift for the first time almost four weeks ago and was embarrassed and humiliated. I only started out at about 120 pounds (3 sets of 8 reps)! The next week I was doing 135 (three sets of 8 reps)! Then, just recently, in my last deadlifting session I was only doing sets of 145 pounds and it felt somewhat heavy. There are bone skinny 105 pound and 110 pound women on youtube who are doing 300 pounds! And even the females who are new to deadlifting are all doing about 200 pounds in their first few weeks. There was this one tiny bone skinny 105 woman in particular who started out deadlifting 115 pounds and then a month later she maxed at 180 pounds! It has been over three weeks for me and I probably couldn't do 160! What is wrong with me!? Am I just naturally an extremely weak man? Why was my starting weight so much lower than everyone else's? Most women on youtube can do 150 pounds or more their first time deadlifting. People in forums say you should easily be able to deadlift your weight the first time. I can't do near that and I am an athletic guy. Even if I haven't been doing deadlifts, I have been doing bodyweight squats and lunges for the past two years. So, the fact that I am so extremely weak at the deadlift is a red flag that something is not right. I studied real hard and I learned how to do proper form in the deadlift, too. I am getting proper rest in between deadlifting sessions, too. The problem here is a complete lack of core strength. My grip is definitely strong enough because of the pull ups I did. Most people (especially women) can deadlift a lot but they have problems with the grip but the grip is not my problem. My problem is that I might have the weakest lower back and glutes and leg muscles of any man in the world. This is humiliating! I keep thinking, "Is something wrong? Why am I so naturally weak? No grown man at my weight is this weak. Do I have cancer or something?"