So, what would you think of a girl who was a waitress at a strip club?

As far as respect goes, she wont lose points with me because I just intellectualize things more than the average guy. I can see how some people might judge someone working in that environment, but as long as you mean what you say then it shouldnt be a problem. Yes you will encounter some guys in there who already prejudge you as a ho, but not all. I used to be narrow minded about the girls who work there until I met certain ones. It can be depressing at first seeing how a woman's time can be bought with money, but you are just a waitress right, not an actual dancer. I guess not everyone is designed for such salacious work. I mean, before my knowledge was expanded on what goes on in there, I used to think all dancers were dirty. But really dancers can be selective about who they grind on and how raunchy the service style, plus some of them just love the attention and feel comfortable with the duties involved, although I think nobody should like being smacked in the butt for a dollar exchange. Pathetic. I think most of them just do it strictly for money because they have the assets that attract the paper, which in a way is working smart and not hard. I know beautiful strippers and I talk to them about motives and most do it for school. They are full time and cant work many hours, so they see the genius in spending minimal time in a go-go for maximum return. But the temptation for easy money is the pitfall you have to be wary about. You will meet rich men who will spoil you and you might develop a thing for rich men after treated so lavishly. Are you strong minded enough to date guy with less bank after being exposed to that lifestyle? Its not a question of you sabotaging your image, but you possibly poisoning your mind through conditioning. You might not trust a lot of men after seeing and hearing what goes on in there. It will change your perspective. You better be well grounded. My advice is to stay sober.